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Anybody who has to live life with a stammer will know just how much of a hindrance it can make what fluent people see as simple jobs. Making a phonephone call, ordering a drink, going out with chums and attending a job interview can be terribly hard for people who stammer or stutter.

I am one of these folks who had to endure the affects of stammering. I’m now very happy to report that I have been fluent for the last ten years and life has never been so good. I was never prepared to accept my stammer in spite of what many other so called stammering experts said. These folk wanted me to stop fighting and to notice that I’d live with the stammer for the remainder of my life. In their eyes if I accepted this fact it would be a lot simpler for me to cope. These pros are fluent folks and it is easy for them to assert.

Through my life I have tried to enhance especially in the areas that I wasn’t happy about. For me stammering was the final problem in my life and i was certain that I would continue my search for a stammering cure for the rest of my life. There wasn’t any way I was going to ever accept it. Whenever anybody says to me that a particular thing can’t be achieved, I think of this as a particularly negative approach. I’ve now decided to try to avoid those negative type people as they’re the ones who are puny and I do need them to have any influence on my life, as they can simply if i am careless bring me down to their level.

I found stammering to be a particularly frustrating problem. At times I could really speak quite well, for instance after I had drunk rather a lot of alcohol. I was able to talk well to one person but not to another. For a few years I could not work out why this was. To find some answers I attended speech therapy at various points in my life. Sadly these folk did not have the mandatory information to help me. My search for a stammering cure would have to continue in a different place.

My advice for anybody who has a stammer is to never give up or accept your stammer. This is in a way accepting second choice which is precisely what I did when I had a stammer. I had to accept second choice in my work, social and even love life as having a stammer made me believe that I could do no better.